Back in the olden days in farming communities, if someone’s barn burnt down that farmer’s neighbors and other members of the town would join forces for an old-fashioned barn-raising. People would take their own time and resources to help build a new barn. Today, despite our obsession with social media and reaching out to others across the virtual universe, we remain extremely independent and we are hesitant to ask for help. But there are people in your world who would gladly help you solve a dilemma you are now facing. Don’t be afraid to ask.